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| Name: | Brad Garbus
| | DOB: | May 14, 1975 (4:04 am) | | Sign: | Taurus - Wood Rabbit (Pisces) | | Personality: | Introverted-Intuitive-Feeling-Judging (INFJ)
This is how to make/keep an INFJ very happy: | | Enneagram: | Type 1 (Perfectionist / Reformer / Judge / Crusader / Critic) | | Eyes: | Brown | | Hair: | Brown, naturally curly when long, wavy when short | | Height: | 6' 1" (barefoot) | | Weight: | <225 | | Build: | big-boned (football player build, broad shoulders, large frame) | | Blood Type: | Type-A 'positive' | | Health Status: | In good to above average heath, no diseases or disabilities. (sleep apnea) | | Favorite Colors: | Royal Blue / Baby Blue / White | | Favorite Food: | I am a vegan/vegetarian, but do enjoy most seafood on occasion.
I enjoy - Indian, Thai, Mexican, Japanese, Chinese, & Mediterranean
(These all have excellent vegetarian options I immensely enjoy.) | | Exercise: | I enjoy simple weight lifting in the mornings and evenings.
During colder months I do more yoga and time on the elliptical.
I enjoy taking a vigorous bike ride around our community.
Like most Taurus people I tend to be a little lazy.
I love going out in the canoe on the Nansemond River, but rarely find time.
While I love most types of exercise; but I dislike competitive sports. | | Religion: | Unity, Unitarian-Universalist, Buddhism, Spiritual (open-minded) | | Orientation: | Gay. I come across as a straight guy in touch with my emotions which confuses most people. The truth is, love does not discriminate, it just is. | | Marital Status: | Long-term Monogamously Life-Partnered | | Political: | Open-minded (socially liberal, fiscal conservative) | | Ethnicity: | Irish, Dutch, German, French, Jewish | | Siblings: | 1 brother, 1 sister (deceased)
14 year age gap between me any my siblings. | | Parents: | both deceased (Dad when I was 6, Mom at age 27) | | Time of Day: | I am definitely a morning person.
Up at sunrise most days, down and out cold by 10pm. | | Born: | Baltimore, MD - Johns Hopkins Hospital | | High School: | Lakeland High School, Suffolk, VA | | College: | ITT Technical Institute, Norfolk, VA
- Associates Degree in Electronics Engineering | | Career: | Full-time weekdays: Canon ITS (Greenbrier Area)
Part-time weekends: ASM Demonstrator @ Sam's Club (Ches Sq Mall)
(Between the two jobs & my commute I work about 76 hrs per week!) | | Volunteer: | Waters Edge at the Riverfront:
Board of Directors, Webmaster, Neighborhood Watch | | Drive: | 2009 Smart For-two, Passion Coupe (black & silver)
License plates: "KYOSEI" | | Reside: | Waters Edge at the Riverfront, a Harbour View Community
(N.E. Suffolk, VA) |
General Preferences:
Music Preference: Classical, Easy Listening, Oldies, Light rock.
Anything that won't give me a headache. I enjoy a very wide variety, could never list it all here...
- Harry Connick Jr.
- Glee
- Celtic Woman
- Dolly Parton
- John Mayer
- Andrea Bocelli
- Alison Krauss
Movie Preference: Sci-fi, Adventure, some-drama.
Normally non-violent unless I am in the mood.
- Star Trek (all)
- Bicentennial Man
- Titanic
- The Man From Earth
- The Celestine Prophecy
- What the Bleep Do We Know; Down the Rabbit Hole
- Avatar
TV Preference: Sci-Fy, documentaries, comedy, (cerebral)
I have Apple TV and watch a lot of series shows.
- Star Gate (all)
- Star Trek (all)
- Merlin
- Smallville
- John Adams (HBO mini series)
- West Wing
- Roswell
- Big Bang Theory
- Glee
Book Preference: Self-help, spiritual, science.
I stay so busy it is hard to find time to enjoy a good book, but I often will read a chapter or two.
- A Return to Love
- A New Earth (Eckhart Tolle)
- Reclaiming Higher Ground (Lance Secretan)
- INSPIRE: What great leaders do (Lance Secretan)
- ONE: The art and practice of conscious leadership (Lance Secretan)
- Don't Sweat the Small Stuff (entire series)
- Chicken Soup for the Soul (entire series)
Vacation Preference: Cruises (If it floats, I'm there!)
- Saint Maartin
- Half Moon Cay, Bahamas
- Bar Harbor, ME
Cuisine / Food Preference: Vegan (vegetarian on bad days...lol)
I can eat anything/anywhere in moderation. I tend to "Eat Right 4 Your Type"
- Shrimp, Lobster or Snow/King Crab, Fish (on special occasions, I love seafood!)
- Fresh Fruits and Vegetables (organic)
- Dessert Souffles (Hot Chocolate), Creme Brulee
- Avoid: transfats, red meats, most 'mammal' based foods
- Doctor's orders: low or no cholesterol and saturated fats. (due to family health risks)
My philosophy is that life is precious. We are on this planet for such a short period of time we need to be kind to each other, even when we disagree. We often reserve feeling love for our significant other and family. I feel it is important that we openly show love to people. We need to stop discriminating between male and female, young and old, gay and straight, this or that. We are all human beings and we all deserve to be loved. This is no more touching gift than a sincere meaningful hug from a friend, and just because – for no reason at all. We all feel pain and hurt at times. I think it is important that we learn to honor each other for our flaws and imperfections. We are all a work in progress and that is what living life is all about. The royal blue rose is probably my favorite flower. It's symbolic of the impossible made possible.
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